Both are active healthy little clubbettes who take after their mom. I understand that. Same personality. Thats great!). In the first year she gained almost 30 pounds. Give him what he loves! She might not want to say something because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings (if shes not into it). THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! It helps if she hangs out with fat female friends, if that's possible. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd. Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. You want him to like himself as much as you . I havent been a pig about it. What Im concerned about is his mental health. At 5'-3" tall she was beautifully plump. 3. Fat people | My Husband makes comments about my weight. Were not kids any more. I can eat what I want when I want and my husband don't mind. She has had some good luck with a few online specialty retailers. I just want to tell him, because it's better for his health and his self esteem, but I don't know how to start the conversation or if I should tell him. Takes some pressure off of me to always be thin for him. I like my girlfriend's weight gain. My hubs says he will get me an aide for me. And I have!. My fianc is an attractive man and makes a good living. He always has had a great appetite, and I like to see men get fat, so I keep him well fed and only cook really fattening dishes, which he loves. A friend of mine who loves to eat and has had a belly most of his adult life recently told me that he was trying to lose weight. I've discussed the ways to make him happy and deal with this situation with a calm state of mind. Slap him and leave. I could do with some now actually! So glad to read this! Once you have the percentage, compare it with the recommended percentage of body fats (10%-20% for healthy men, 18%-28% for women), and if it is more than these ranges (though he has a normal weight), your husband is skinny fat. I may fatten him up by another 25 pounds just to make sure. 350 pounds is nice foundation weight. But he has been super sweet about my weight gain, so Im a little conflicted!! How much do you miss being slim and skinny? Dear E. Jean: I adore my boyfriend of six years. Its not always bad to be heavier. So even if your husbands skinny fat looks good to you and himself, he might actually be suffering from serious health issues. Well, she got comfortable in the relationshp, and the weight started to creep up. I love how watching a successful business person grow wider and wider. Gain together - mutual gaining is great you get to point out where he is getting fat and needs to size up - poke poke - and he gets to see your belly rolls! But what can be expected when you don't even have enough self respect to keep your own weight under control? Lots of ice cream, desserts and soft drinks. My Boyfriend Loves Fat Women. Nice try attempting to identify with the population of heavier women, but you arent there yet, babe. Just please do not take that out on him or his body. The content published on this blog is for informational purposes only. He doesn't like the extra weight on him, but he seems to like when I grab his belly and moobs. It hasnt been bad. He came back 20 pounds heavier. It could also happen if youve never done much strength training to produce muscle growth, you dont eat enough protein-enriched foods, or you have been in a calorie deficit for too long by burning more calories than you are taking in. I love to show my fat wife off to all the skinny b******. Ive tried, but shes just not comfortable talking about it. Being around him is never fun. Or was your success part of your reason for letting loose? She just wasn't comfortable with her weight and did it anyway. Too fat to exercise, but with a big belly thats constantly hungry and needs to be filled up. She's really putting away the chocolates, cakes, pies, Oreos, and ice cream. 543 lbs and growing, and loving every new pound. For one, I don't like to see someone purposely deprive themselves of something or to be unhappy, but also because I'm scared he'll get skinny again. I don't know if he's testing me for my reaction or what. Let me tell you, she pigged out and gained a whopping 85 pounds. So glad to read this. In that time I've put on some weight, around 40 pounds, but I've made sure my husband got really fat. I'll bet that the little blubber b**** can't even run and play with the other children. Answer (1 of 42): Maybe your boyfriend isn't as shallow as most people are. Do they have problems fitting in with their peers? What size were you when you met each other? It may take a bit of time for you to find yourself full-on, dying-to-bang attracted to him again, whether he loses weight or doesnt. an there might be complicantions, and i sure did need a csection cuz that kid was huge-10 lb 14oz. At the time I weighs somewhere around 265-275. B**** and Butt super small now too (F cup to large D). My oldest is 10 and around 190lbs and her younger sister who is 8 is about 160lbs. Sounds like you want to leave her sorry to hear. couldnt keep my hands off her. I have always dreamed of growing a big, round, huge belly my whole life. Eat late. That will make her feel confident and beautiful and want her to keep those extra pounds for her appreciative man! Assistir Fulham X Leeds - Ao Vivo Grtis HD sem travar, sem anncios. He always puts us first and works really hard. It sounds like a sentence out of the mouth of every guy who . A: Let me begin with the easiest of your questions: This does not mean you never loved him. Its not like he doesnt know hes gained weight. Women who approach fattening their husbands up like that are really persuasive. 98 pounds. Totally this. And during s**, shes gotten a lot more grabby and seems to be into my widening body. Whenever I observe how fat Ive gotten, my wife just raises her eyebrows and smiles seductively. If you do, you shouldnt. When you were singles seeking a mate, you knew you needed to maintain your appeal . Surround him with food and encourage him. If you cook, start making more caloric meals--lots of carbs and fat. His face isn't hard on the eyes either. Be prepared to gain some serious additional pounds!You might be surprised how your desires and fantasies compare. My beautiful wife was never a waif. Don't think marriage is in the picture anymore. I can't wait until it blocks her even when I haven't been stuffed. (the more dangerous of the two) stored in the internal organs and is thus really hard to notice. No one is encouraging me/I don't want to become fat. Iam very big girl now at all most 400 pounds and Ive been married for 6 years my husband adores me loves me am very happy and glad of the attention. And the gain has been all over, so its not like it looks odd to be 20 pounds heavier. Because if she is the type to be constantly trying to be a good fatty by constantly attempting some dumbass diet or worse yet, weightloss surgery, then both you and she will be miserable for the rest of your lives. What ideas does he have? Well, I really, really porked cuz I gains 88 pounds. Whenever he comes to meet with me, he brings fast food with him. I've blown past every milestone we've set, she has a heavy hand when it comes to feeding. Pinterest. There is nothing better than being able to eat whatever you want and get as fat as you want and your partner adores the fat on you! And why? Both my x was bbw.After my divorce I found thick girlfriend not yet bbw. Try my best to make believe I enjoy it but faking. Has anyone discussed it with their partner and how do you approach the conversation? Wait until she hits around the 500lb mark. At no point in that decade-long . If she likes to snack, have lots of them around. I love having a takeaway once or twice a week. I got wet instantly just thinking about it! When we were dating she was 180 or 190, and she's only 5'6". Sorry about the title, but that's exactly what is happening. It has ruined a lot of marriages which I thought about. It really burns their skinny little a**** when they see how devoted I am to my beautiful, enormous, princess. Just please do not take that out on him or his body. (Which is true, he has lost about an inch." I'm really turned off by overweight guys and just the feeling of his belly makes me cringe. Get loads of people loving the pics I share of her. My wife says I look 8 months pregnant, loland I've got a new pair of b****. I weighed 250 pounds when I married. (Devil horns). Cookie Notice Unfortunately, your boyfriend is one of them. Id be humiliated. I've been with my hubby for 15 years now, second marriage for both of us. Nothing like 200 pounds of jiggly fat to announce TAKEN!. Become a Forum Helper for Life and Style! You might think that your husbands BMI value is fine, so the doctor is lying to you, but actually, the BMI value is just a rough guide as it doesnt always correspond to the same body get percentage in different individuals. As I stated, life is interesting and I wouldn't change a single thing for all the money in the world. THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! I have always felt fat, but by America's standards, I am very underweight. You might say something like: Im very sad because I feel like we arent as connected or romantic as before, and I feel like Ive lost some of my attraction to you. Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, How to handle colleague/former friend rejection again, Official Cambridge Postgraduate Applicants 2023 Thread, The Cambridge College Hurt/Heal Game [part 2], Andrew Tate arrested for human trafficking, are there more doors or wheels in the world, The Official Love Island Thread Winter 2023, History NEA- John Guy Historian validity and analysis. At that height, you have to be 180 pounds to be on the cusp of obesity. Applying to multiple unis with this course. I want to admit to him, but I'm afraid. i couldnt push her outta me. She probably also gets turned on by seeing your fat butt waddle around her house. I met my hubby at gym. Skinny fat, also known as sarcopenic obesity, is a condition that makes a person look skinny on the outside though they have the same medical issues as an obese person on the inside. Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend's Getting Fat". Different body type now and I find it extremely alluring and sexy. Now, two years later, he has a really noticeable potbelly amb I look like two years ago. Huffing and puffing getting dressed while I massage her fat side rolls. If his face stays handsome and his body blows up like a balloon but he can still f--k, no problem. Skinny fat is caused mainly by insufficient muscle mass, leading to a larger body fat percentage. I wondered if my husband would recognise me after surgery loosing weight in a short space of time. I wanted to share with her my preference for her to continue to gain. You should always seek an expert opinion if you need to. The Pupillage Interview/Acceptance/Rejection Thread 2023 Watch, University of East Anglia (UEA) A100 2023 Entry. Can you take walks with the dog together? The lesson I took from camp was that people will only love you if you're skinny. . Its just how I feel about it. Being open and honest is what worked for us. Does she yo-to, too? I'm retired! Can you go on more date nights? Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark. All rights reserved. So sweet. She succeeded. It's.. everything about his growing body that drives me wild. I tell him he's not fat, that he's normal, that guys with meat on them is nice, and so on, but am I doing more harm than good by saying that?? I wouldn't mind if he did . At 20 I loved my boyfriends hard body. I've had real arguments with my friends about it. I like to think that my tubby hubby is wearing my affection around his middle. S** just keeps getting better each year, and she has said she doesn't plan to change her eating habits until she's 500. Now you know why skinny fat is dangerous and what you should do to help your husband overcome it. Im sorry for him and for you (and for me and for everyone else not involved) that weight is such a thorny, painful, loaded topic. No it's not the only one - but it's a pretty big one! She seemed so confused with how Fat I became and continued to grow she didnt even seem to mind that she was now the heaviest she had ever been as well. I love her. I am that fat wife. Dunno, half and half I guess. When I'm with my married friends they speak about their husbands looks and weight in such a negative way. I started at about 200 after gaining 30lbs from COVID, I think that's what encouraged her to ask me to gain weight. So I decieded to take, what I considered, a huge risk and share some pictures of Kelligrl--a bbw gainer back in the 90s. We never really discussed it but he just lets it be and the s** is getting better and better the heavier I get (he loves me on top). On top of that, healthiness is not better than unhealthiness. My face is a little chubbier, went up a cup size and a pants size. People who have chronic illnesses who will not recover from them are not lesser than healthy people. Rarely does it abruptly drop off a cliff and nosedive, sinking deeper and deeper into a nadir of nonsexiness. My husband is always grabbing my love handles ( having kids, I can't get rid of them no matter how hard I try). The relationship is so much better not to mention the s** just gets better and better. Weve been together three years. 2022 is the year of the real fat man for me. I feel free to indulge without need to justify anything, especially to strangers with dubious intentions. One of the reasons I'm trying to get them to drop a few pounds is the clothing situation. He is so beautifully big bellied now, that it's affecting his abilities to do certain s ex positions, which I find so hot. There are three things that should influence your weight goals: 1. Then show him some pictures of various bbws from 200-400 pounds. I told her she could never be too fat for my liking and right then she said then she would grow for me and now she is a a beautiful 709 pound beauty and still stuffing herself with all the fattening foods that I buy for her. You can be unhealthy when you are fat or skinny. It would kill me to see them treated badly because their mom and I allowed them to become chubby. Dear Wendy: "My Boyfriend's Getting Fat". Its definitely worth it in the end to achieve a healthier lifestyle. He has a slight double chin now that I also think is sexy. Please, always consult with a Licensed P. or your Local Doctor for advice if you need to. I envision that one day in the not too distant future I will have to hire a full time aid/nanny/housekeeper for my wife and chubby kids. She got diabetes of pregnancy right toward the end, but still kept pigging out. I dont think a belly looks bad on a man and he has a strong frame and can carry the weight. He loves to play with her belly rolls. I don't know exactly what I'd thought I'd accomplish by confessing. My friend even asked if I was pregnant (it didn't help that my gf stuffed me silly with a massive breakfast that morning and I could barely stand afterwards) Since deciding to gain my belly has almost tripled in size and my t*** are up to H cups, not to mention my ass takes up so much space now. Oh I know why BECAUSE THERE AREN'T ANY. My husband is getting fat. Just something I never told anyone. If you try again and he continues to be defensive about this or wont take any steps to care for himself, then, OK, you have a new problem. Same woman. she stood there looking in the mirror for a minute or 2, then declared, I'm gaining the weight back. We have been married for 28 years. Yes, After she started putting on some weight, she made a few comments about getting too fat, and I told her that I prefered her that way, so she just stopped worrying about her weight. A fat body can (but does not always) imply laziness, short-sightedness, and a kind of disregard for one's holistic well-being." "A woman who is fat clearly just doesn't care about herself." "Being . Be honest with yourself and him as to what you desire as well. So far she doesn't seem affected but who knows for the future. Is it hopeless? But once she had one, I think she was pleased with how I feel. He said he's put on ~30 pounds in the last year. It is so much fun to watch a slightly chubby women lose control and pack on the pounds after marriage. I can't take my hands off her fat bum . Thats totally fine. If she is into it, and you ask, and shes honest with you, it could open up a whole new phase of your relationship that you both could mutually indulge in and enjoy, and it wouldnt have to be this hush-hush secret anymore. But it also doesnt make for an easy relationship, in part because it often leads to feelings like you described of guilt or self-flagellation. Last weekend we went to a BBQ with my family and my father and brother were surprised and also happy that he starts to look like a 'real man' (they have a really large bellies). Here is a picture of me when my wife fell in love with me: This is me and my wife now: Not every person is shallow. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds! Its just attractive to me. My Ex Wants To Get Back Together. Heavy cream dishes, sedentary life, and booze. Ive always been on the diet side of the conversation, but now that Ive put on some weight, I understand the obesity side much more. We've been married for 7 years. As mentioned before, many people can look skinny, but that doesnt mean they are skinny in a healthy way because of sarcopenic obesity. I put weighed on for him . It makes a lot of sense for your attraction to have dipped. I dont see as many people because of the pandemic, so mainly just like my mom or sister. How many women want to seriously fatten up their husbands? Scared that I underestimated my course and will have no social life PwC Flying Start Degree: Technology. If all goes to plan, he'll run the whole way there. Solely because of your wife? poke his belly! My comment is perfectly valid. We have two extremes in America, a diet culture and an obesity culture. My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. Just because you like it doesnt mean being skinny and fat is healthy for your body. We have been married for 16 years and we have 2 children, 14 and 12. There also may come a time when you express to him that your attraction level isnt what it was before I wouldnt do this right away, because that seems like a lot of pressure. I thought to myself, f uck that, I gots preggo, now I's gonna really enjoy and pork out. Seriously. What kind of fattening dishes? Im thinking maybe next year, Ill lose weight. 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