While this can be a helpful resource for some, others are using these platforms to self-diagnose and potentially harm their mental health. She may be looking for love or just hungry for attention. You may develop an issue with it. I just know in my heart, I cannot be in another situation like I was with my ex, ever again. The cost should be reasonable, or if not, that money can go to a nice trip for the both of you or for your family trip. :) Turd. If after talking about it you still object to him going to strip clubs, that's okay! It is just very hard, because I am deathly afraid of being cheated on. The "New Age" opinion. Like myself. So no I wouldn't do that, but I would have an opposite sex friend even in a committed relationship if it was okay with all parties involved. <3. Not just change the rule without saying something and then she can choose to keep playing or quit. The fastest way to see a mans true colours if he does run, even better. So, I told him i dont want him to feel he has to ask me whenever he wants to do anything. He said what he meant, and he meant what he said. I don't want to ask for his attention. This would allow him to distance himself from unpleasant feelings and dissociate from the discomfort of underlying mental problems. 05-17-2012, 01:53 PM steve1282 : Location: Dallas. Both myself and my husband don't drink. Track his every move know what he is doing all the time put a tracking chip on him shut up!! You still can have friends. I guess I J. can't really imagine being in a relationship with someone that I didn't trust enough to be "allowed" to hang out with the opposite sex. Sex is often a part of healthy, committed relationships, so if you two aren't getting intimate anymore, that might be an indication that something's not right. But I would care if he went with women , J. like he would not like M. sitting drinking or dancing with men. My husband and his friends will have a "guys" weekend once a year. Going To A Bar Alone Is Cool If It's Just Temporary. You're dating or living with this good looking guy, maybe he's charming and you feel wanted . He has never given M. a reason to worry about that even if he went with females. I did indeed go and sit next to people I hadn't seen in months including some single men and proceeded to hug and be picked up by every guy I knew (oh how I love this bar, I'm 6 foot- so its rare to get the hug where people pick you up in the air and you get to feel like a girl lol) so anyway I do this every so often (usually once a month when my boyfriend has his Irish meeting, we'll take one car after dropping Emmy off with her dad, and I'll go here while he does his meeting) and usually my boyfriend will meet M. out or I will meet him out at some point in the night and we'll hang out with friends and have fun, but for a good portion I'm happily talking to whoever I want to, not gender biased or relationship status biased. When you do that, she will want to stay home with you because she'll be afraid of losing you. If you talk with your boyfriend about how you feel, maybe he can assuage your fears. If it becomes a constant thing of going ot the bars all the time and it eats into your time with him, which is what my bf wants to do, then you may have something to worry about. :). The answer is to behave appropriately while there. When you're young it's fun, but at 42 seems a bit pathetic. He probably went to bars like 2-4 days a week. Like, the power play becomes important when it comes to understanding the experience. She dumped me for a guy she met there one night. Neither of which is good for a rel'ship..I mean, unless you're going to a bar to see a band..or maybe do karaoke or something. My husband works at a bar on the weekends. Davidgrx Probably. My husband and I both worked at bars, so we're very secure with our marriage.. Lots of ladies (myself included) go out to meet friends without spouses to bars, and any bar is going to have single people in it. I arrived alone and I left alone. You still can go out. I really don't understand your answer, since when the hell does having fun mean not being into her? Gd luck to everyone in the same situation and i hope you are stronger than me when you bite the bullet and call it a day!Please dont msg anything horrible back, i need support not a ribbing! Yes. A bar you've been to with him and women are frequently coming to say hi to him, hugging him, getting his attention. i talked to him today about it, and he just apologized and said that its he knows he;s ***** up. The funny thing was it was that attitude of his that I think made him sleep around. im **** off he doesnt call but should i be worried or just let it go? Does He Wish To End It? That being said we aren't glued at the hip and I am not his mother, so if he wants to hang out with his buddies or I want to go out with my friends for a girls night, neither of us has a problem with it. this has been posted a long time ago and i hope you're not with him anymore. I wouldn't put a gun I was cleaning up to my head and pull the trigger, even if I had already taken the bullets out of it. Um, not if you don't let it. I am her first serious boyfriend as well, her only other boyfriend was a relationship that only lasted about 3 months. They have these piano bars here and my hubby and i went oncebut was not something we said, "HEY, lets go again !" Thats fine, because it isnt like I want to get permission every time I want to have a drink with my gf or go out for a girls night out. I do what I CHOOSE to do. I'm a very sporadic patron of this bar. Started December 23, 2022. Kelly1988 The veteran drinker is usually front and center, taking shots or downing beers like one of the guys. I called him at 11:30. It's not hard to pick up a phone even if your drunk. He he knows your always in he feels safe. Why boyfriend doesn't call? I guess I'm J. a prude, then, because I believe there are better places to hang out than bars and that if you are married or committed and have children, your time is better spent with them. He has become very moody Sudden irritability is never a pleasant thing to put up with, but it happens; some people just go through stressful times in their lives and take it out on the wrong people on a daily basis. going out alone indicates infedlity " potentially" or alcoholism. If it works for you two great! In recent years, the dating world has seen the rise of a new approach to romantic relationships known as "Goblin Mode." Most importantly, he calls you when he gets home. I toned down my friendliness over the years to make him more comfortable. My bf did all these things, too, but now he's not. I trust him, too. Looking for advice on handling a disappointing visit, She broke up with me because of my gambling, France to the US - long distance problems. if your bf is okay with it then there's no problem. He has no outside friends or interests. Do what you feel is right. I guess I have.. Family events are typically things that the two of you should attend together, especially if you're in a long-term, committed relationship. 1. Life doesnt begin at 30, dont let anyone tell you different, I feel hurt and embarassed bec he doesnt reply to my text. Also, there can be some exceptions and ultimately, you and your partner probably know your relationship best, so just because they've done one of these things before doesn't necessarily mean that they're done with you or have completely checked out. .. The alternative is to . That's why I wouldn't go out to a bar without my SO. What does it take to stop running into these types of people? When youre in a relationship, only YOU know the rules that you have. And I understood that too because I thought it was okay to be angry, but I still don't get angry with him when I'm mad. He didn't let me know anything. It premiered on TNT on July 12, 2010, and set a record as cable TV's most watched commercial-supported series launch. Started Monday at 06:41 PM, By It was a relief not going anymore. to get more tequila photos without a doubt. We are individuals sharing the same goals in relationship. No brainer. I mean I'd understand if he were a shady person, but he's not. You get worried when you see your partner with someone else. my boyfriend goes out all night and doesnt call or text me at all..we are in a long distance relationship and the next day he gives me excuses like i was "too drunk" and passed out. If you try to control things he will be running for the hills. IMO, this is one of those make or break moments of a relationship. Women shouldn't have to act like Jason Bourne going to crazy lengths to avoid attention just to have a drink and listen to a band without harassment. Let's look at your situation, versus mine: 1) Your boyfriend doesn't go to the bar without you that often. Feeling down or depressed is a common experience for many people at some point in their lives. I was 20, she was 21, and I couldn't hit the bars with her. If you go to meet other guys, yeah, big problem. And you allow that? Clubs and bars are places to find one night stand and occasional sex partners. You know that your a girl. Started February 13, By Started January 23, By Covering Phoenix, Mesa, Glendale, Scottsdale, Gilbert, the valley . I guess it's all in how you carry yourself. AskMen, Become a Better Man, Big Shiny Things, Mantics and guyQ are among the federally Started February 23, By What scares me is my jealousy. Part of your discomfort about your boyfriend going out may be because you wish you were doing the same. aweeeeeeee you're bf sounds amazing ! S.H I agree completely. People need to stop being so sketchy and selfish. This is what gets you in trouble. Am I crazy for being upset? You know honestly im sure it depends on the person. LDR's are hard for both parties but your boyfreind sounds selfish and callous. We J. like to know where the other one is, more for safety than out of paranoia or concerns of cheating. Trust is arguably . I think you need to face up to that and . Everyone on this site is so over dramatic! We asked if we could use the gift certificate right then for lunch and still get the $5 off coupon. We purchased the gift cert from the bar so we were seated in that section. that is the last message i want to send. I thought this was an interesting point of view, and it made sense because women are in touch with the emotional side of attraction more than men are. Whether they're truly checked out and just can't be bothered to end things or there's something else going on, you're likely going to have to talk about it together in order to move forward. he possibly has a minor drinking problem If it was a few hours I'd be fine but he goes off grid for like 10/12 hours at a time and then texts to say his phone died, or he left it at home etc should I be questioning this? You still have freedom. call M. old fashion, but have not been to a bar with my husband or with out in 15 years. It's not about permission but about respect because we don't want the other to feel uncomfortable. Just enjoy life and enjoy the relationship, take it day by day and go with the flow. And yes, we've been hit and and continued to be bothered even AFTER we've told them we're married. I have male friends that were servers there who are friendly and are known entities (we have occasional cribbage tournaments). Most of the time I go out with my husband, but that is because we don't get very many opportunities to be out together and so I really want to be with him. BTW I can say that the majority of women I know are attracted to women as well (even if they don't act on it) so should they be banned from everyone=)Advertisementif(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[320,50],'mamapedia_com-box-3','ezslot_4',679,'0','0'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-mamapedia_com-box-3-0');if(typeof ez_ad_units != 'undefined'){ez_ad_units.push([[320,50],'mamapedia_com-box-3','ezslot_5',679,'0','1'])};__ez_fad_position('div-gpt-ad-mamapedia_com-box-3-0_1'); .box-3-multi-679{border:none !important;display:block !important;float:none !important;line-height:0px;margin-bottom:5px !important;margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important;margin-top:5px !important;max-width:100% !important;min-height:50px;padding-bottom:20px !important;padding-top:20px !important;text-align:center !important;}. Am I being gas lighted? Anyway what are your thoughts on the above situation? Its not in my personality to go to a bar alone.but I have gone out to the bar with some girlfriends and/or my SIL. You know, if you're meeting up with friends at a bar and you get there early. He knew that I was not going to be hooking up with anyone. I feel for you too. Do I think it's "wrong" for other ladies and men to do that? But don't be anxious, you are good enough and I'm sure he loves you like you love him. the next morning he said he was wasted with a bunch of his friendsand hes not the type to cheat on a girl, but who know what can happen when their drunk you know? Anyway, to each his own regarding going out to a bar with or without our SO. You met him at a bar. Anyone that cant handle that isnt ready for a real relationship. The whole idea that you never go without each other to parties is quite frankly absurd. Clubs and bars are not a place for someone in a relationship unless you're there with your partner to dance, have fun, and show the world who you're deeply in love with. . Family is a pretty central part of people's lives so if you're no longer included, you're likely going to spending life on the periphery.". He even texts me when he is out, and calls or texts when he gets home. He's due to come home in a couple of weeks but his dissapearing acts on the weekend just winds me up. A know a few guys who don't do that. Honestly..what i'm going to start doing is when I know hes going out to drink, you should just play his game..don't text/ call him..let him come to youif he does. If he's out with the guys, I want to know exactly where he is in case anything happens. They said yes without question. What does it mean when a man call & text you several times every day eventh My Boyfriend doesn't like if I call him from his name. Lets see how many times I can add to this. (You won't be happy if your wife is gone every night.) So my wife and I go out to this bar pretty much every Wednesday night for Karaoke. Im sorry for saying all this, its not that i dont trust you its just i'd prefer you to be honest with me and tell me the truth rather than putting up with everything, it would make it easier for the both of us and our relationship! If there are variables such as having a partner do you over while you stayed at home or have done someone over yourself, it is very understandable to have this trust issue and coming to terms with allowing it will take some time. But just letting your SO know where youre going or what youll be doing is very simple. Before telling your partner something like this, pragmatism demands some thought first to how much you're asking and expecting a person to change. . They are in a long distance relationship and that's not about sitting at home, missing and texting each other 24/7, gosh. The thing last time he said he wouldn't get drunk and he did. I tried to make friends with the girls, but it didnt help because when he made a comment about how good she looked in the thong, it showed no regard for me. His words said no but his actions usually said yes. i dont really know how to feel about this. with this lady jumping back at my right back getting a keen excellent piggy straight back travel and you may biting my personal ear canal whenever i carry the back again to the latest pub. The "Cool" way to think. 14. If your boyfriend is going out without you, it doesn't necessarily mean he's trying to end things. Ya know, and I think this is important, if someone I hung out with gave Troy a bad vibe I would not question his vibe, I would stop hanging out with that person. I just want to hear stories of people whose SO goes out with his/her friends and your ok with it? Don't make the same mistake I did. 613 posts, read 1,015,221 . He stays out all night and turns the ringer off, pfffft. It's not that we can't go out, we J. don't want to. My boyfriend does this most weekends but worse promises to make plans with me then chooses to go out drinking instead turns off his phone or ignores me and stays out all weekend then comes running back always with excuses we spoke about this several times about how it upsets me to be waiting for him and then I hear nothing until the next day or 3 days later he doesn't even tell me half the time he is cancelling on me I don't even know where he is half the time so if it gets to that stage you are in trouble it is emotional torture. It's his choice whether he visits strip clubs, and you're also entitled to your feelings about it. Commitment has nothing to do, with restricting another person. Started January 19, By UH. Usually the other one is watching the kids. Does my husband go out to bars without M.? So would this be not allowed in your relationship? You have to put trust into each other. New episodes air Mondays on Facebook. If her spouse or at least one co-worker were there, then no problem, but not one on one (unintentional pun). I worked yesterday and then picked up my daughter and then had dinner and met her dad at the park so he could take her for the night. I have done a few "ladies' nites" with some of the other moms from my son's school. :). I've seen a lot of posts on here recently about whether its ok for a married or committed person to go to lunch/bar with single person of the opposite sex (or same gender depending on preference) and it had M. wondering if you guys/girls ever go to a bar or an establishment where other singles are and talk to new people? The only time he gets phone calls is when I wake up at 3am and hes not home. But there's obviously cases where the spouse is comfortable with the environment like you described J. M. so I don't see an issue. Needless to say, the abuse of such substances can negatively affect decision-making. This is emotionally manipulative behavior. If I wanted to go out to a bar with a bunch of girlfriends my husband would tell M. to have a good time and same for himthey guys go for a drink after work, sure join them (J. let M. know so I don't have dinner waiting). He needs to tell you everything that He does ? But when I'm home, I'm usually out with himbecause I miss him! My Hubby Do Not Let Me Go Out When I Wanna Have a Girl Night outwhy? If I'm going to go out it will be with my SO. Anyways, so he is going out with him tonight, and I am trying my hardest to have faith and trust in him. Tinder, the popular dating app, is no longer just for hookups. With us its always all good because we know with who, where and why the other person is going out. It doesn't bother my husband. what do I do? To us, our family is our priority and they come first. 9. I know what it's like to love someone but know they aren't good for you. It's kind of like the idea that Facebook ruins marriages. xx. If he is out all night having "fun" and doing all this ****, hes not up to the challenge for being your boyfriend. If you have an open relationship that should be discussed . How do I know, bad breakup. my heart goes out to u, its so hard coz if u keep bringin up the subject u dont want to come across as clingy or needy, im in the same boat myself and i just confronted him lastnight, i ended up finishin it, which now i regret, if u intend to bring it up again with him be ready for the consequences. You know when you are dating someone who cares and you know when you are dating a player. I go out with my girlfriends, usually a dinner and drinks at the local dining place. HE needed the excitement is what he told M.. And just a little hint (whens playing games-such as baseball- you cant just change the rules to benefit yourself). Warning signs that your male partner is emotionally controlling you. I personally would not do that. I am a very touchy feely person. Did you find this post helpful? justagirl09January 22, 2012 in Trust and Relationships. my boyfriend goes out all night and doesnt call or text me at all..we are in a long distance relationship and the next day he gives me excuses like i was "too drunk" and passed out. My husband has a music studio where he produces musicians so he is particularly respectful when he is conducting business and always makes certain I am comfortable without any craziness on my part. Now, pull out the choke - but only three-quarters of the way - hit that button again. FLirt but come home to M.. You know? before we were married my wife went out with her friends every couple of weeks to the bar seen. We agreed that going out alone with single people of the opposite sex is giving off the wrong impression that there might be something going on even though there isn'tso we don't do it. Just tonight I decided if we are going to have a future together, I need to give him his time to himself and not bombard him with texts. I feel for you. I do think it is okay to have opposite sex friends. I do not care at all. Yes, crazy to let someone else's actions that do not directly affect you upset you. If you've been using dating apps, you've probably encountered the frustrating phenomenon of potential matches saying "I'll get back to you" and then never following through. As far as I know he doesn't hug other women, pick them up or flirt with themif he did I would have a problem with that, because it's not the type of guy I'd want to be married to. Now if he went to a place like that by himself I woudl worry something was up for 2 reasons. I've lived in my little city since I was a teenager and I run into people EVERYwhere, so when I meet a friend I prefer a private location where I am better able to focus on them and our conversation. To M. it seems like it's J. some women who are attracted to women, not the majority. React Reply Cleveland Follow Explorer Age: 36 , mho 37% +1 y If he can go out so can you. He did not acquiesce, as I was sitting next to him. I see both sides here. Did I go to local bars and hang out and have all the fun you mentioned above when I was single? They got married a year later. He was drunk and he is supposed to go to work in the morning. No, I know it is. Has she always been that way, or is this a recent development? Wouldn't dream of it. Fast forward to today, I had an awesome girlfriend, whom I encouraged to have her own life outside our relationship. "I guess it depends from one man to another. https://www.mamapedia.com/article/question-for-married-women-only, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/my-hubby-do-not-let-me-go-out-when-i-wanna-have-a-girl-night-outwhy, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/poll-on-men-and-frienships-w-women, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/can-guys-just-be-friends-with-girls-updated, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/can-men-and-women-be-friends-2673, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/discussion-dash-having-single-friends-when-married, https://www.mamapedia.com/article/opinions-on-having-guy-friends. It would be one thing if your SO is telling you where you can and cannot go. I kinda had a feeling you were probably like meaffected negatively by a past relationship. He asked for nothing in return. He knows he can trust M.. Maybe you happen to have a lot of bi-sexual friends. Later that day when I went to see him again he had a bite on his neck and it looked like a love mark. When youre in a relationship you dont just change the rules. "[I]f you find that your partner is more engaged with text messaging friends or on social media when you're with them, this is a sign that they are not present in the relationship," Hershenson says. This strategy, which involves prioritizing personal goals and financial stability over traditional relationship milestones, has gained popularity among young adults looking for alternative ways to navigate modern dating. But I get it. I had to sleep with him I was his wife, she chose to sleep with M.. Effed up but true. This is something we as humans can't help. We trust each other. He has the right to have a life, gosh. Do the same to him hun. She may be loud and obnoxious, overly flirtatious, and quite often visibly tanked. its not good at what hes doing, but if its a long distance relationship theres nothing u can do, my guy just lives half hour away from me..pity things cant be just simple.. Emotional or physical affairs are not okay in my book. I have never really understood the "allowed" part I guess. On weekends I don't have my kids, I . Learn to trust your partner. Bars are often pick-up spots and can offer temptation for someone who's on the fence in their relationship.". Even I have had experience with these and I can tell you how inappropriate it is to not hear from your boyfriend. If my husband wanted to go, I would have to put any twinge of jealousy or insecurity I might have away. Luckily for us both, neither of us are the 'bar/club going on a regular basis' kind of people. Even though I know he wouldn't just the thought of my boyfriend getting drunk worries me that he will make a bad decision. At all. I am not sure what the inside of a bar looks like nowadays.We J. don't go anyway. Sorry - J. reality in my world - you haven't made a LIFETIME commitment to your boyfriend - hence the fact he is bf and not dh. But even if that's your case, can you honestly say you don't have a hand in it? During a casual dinner with three other couples, the guys repeatedly implored my boyfriend to go with them to a strip club. He would attend the lingerie shows there and take pictures with the girls who apparently knew him by 1st name. So my boyfriend is becoming much more distant as of late. She puts relationship on hold. I did have one guy ask M. to dinner after the annoying compliments you hear at such establishments and I replied that I had a boyfriend and he kept talking but kept asking how I was allowed to go out without my boyfriend. The problem with being alone is, that usually means you'll have to find people to talk to and thats sorta the fishy part for the spouses I think. he just seemed super down about how his life is going, is this why i might be feeling so neglected by him? Eventually I broke down, had a hard time with it, and she dumped me. 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